If All Bodies Are Beautiful what About All Faces? Face Positivity

We keep getting “body positivity” shoved down our throat. What about women with homely faces? When’s their ship going to come in?

Why don’t we see THEM strutting catwalks and getting on covers of magazines?

In fact, the very phrase, “All faces are beautiful,” isn’t even used amid all the body positivity hoopla.

Even women with conventionally attractive bodies don’t stand a chance of getting a modeling gig if they have a plain Jane face, let alone a “dog face.”

Professional Models

Look, I get it: It’s important that a model have a pretty face. I myself use images of only attractive faces for most of my articles.

However, I also don’t actively campaign for “body positivity,” either. I’m off the hook.

I don’t claim to be a pioneer in this area like Sports Illustrated — which contradicts itself by using only gorgeous-faced women.

What about the increasing media attention towards models with skin conditions?

Well, here’s the problem: The barrier-breaker is their skin, not their facial structure!

Yes, they have acne, large moles or a pigment disorder — yet at the same time, still have a “model’s face” — in terms of structure. This is no coincidence.

Winnie Harlow has allegedly “broken barriers” as the first model with vitiligo to strut a Victoria’s Secret show.

BUT … Winnie’s facial structure is traditional model caliber. Check out her beauty below.

Winnie Harlow — a classically beautiful face that just happens to have de-pigmentation.

Amy Deanna landed a contract with CoverGirl, a company that claims body positivity due to this move. Gee what a coincidence that her face is structured like the typical runway model’s!

Amy Deanna. Would CoverGirl had hired her if her lips were thin and eyes closer together?

Let’s see CoverGirl hire a woman with either of the faces below for any contract! That’s the day hell will freeze over.

Sports Illustrated, CoverGirl, you interested?

 

We should gun for “Lip Positivity.”

We can put a bunch of big splotchy moles on Ashley Graham’s face, and doggone it, she’d still be gorgeous!

We can give Emilia Clarke’s face a noticeable case of vitiligo – and let’s toss in several giant zits while we’re at it — and crikey, she’d still be beautiful!

Emilia Clarke, actress

When I speak of facial beauty or homeliness, I can’t say this enough: I refer to features and proportions, NOT skin color variegation or large moles or patches.

Target’s “Inclusive” Swimwear Campaign

Four models, all with YOUNG faces. Below is one of them. Note the skin difference.

Source: Target’s Shade & Shore line

What else do you notice? Hint: Imagine her without the skin condition.

What do you see? It’s obvious: a face that’s STRUCTURED like that of a conventional model’s!

Paint on some eyebrows, add false eyelashes, eyeliner, eye shadow and lipstick, and she’d be quite attractive despite the rough skin.

Target falls short on inclusion because all the women in their Shade & Shoreline campaign have YOUNG, STRUCTURALLY PRETTY faces.

Recording Artists

For once, I’d like to see a recording artist (plus size or not) hit it big who has an unbecoming face.

I’m not talking about winners of those TV talent shows. I’m talking about those who blow into the public eye out of nowhere and hit it huge.

Now before you start naming successful “fugly” female recording artists, I need to point out that facial beauty is outright required for three genres of music:

• Top 40
• Country
• Hip hop and whatever else you call today’s music

Requirements are looser for rap, grunge rock and alternative, but let’s stick to the big 3.

Name one wildly popular, contemporary recording artist in any of these three genres who is homely.

This excludes those you hate. Some people have posted that Beyoncé, Katy Perry, Taylor Swift, Britney Spears, Rihanna and Ariana Grande are ugly. It’s no coincidence that their posts also spew a lot of hatred towards these performers.

Would Taylor Swift, Alicia Keys, Rihanna or Cardi B gotten their big break if they looked like the two women below?

Joel Mott/Unsplash

Now before you point out that these artists are very talented and that their looks are only coincidental, then how about explaining why – once again – we NEVER see a woman with a homely face who hits it big in pop, soft rock, country or hip hop?

You may be thinking of Barbra Streisand and Celine Dion, but their exceptional pipes cancel out their less-than conventionally attractive faces. Plus, that’s only two out of a boatload.

Keep in mind that “not beautiful” does NOT mean ugly. Think of this as four categories: Ugly/homely, Plain, Pretty and Beautiful.

With makeup ON, name one recording superstar who’s Plain, let alone Ugly/homely.

And don’t let your hatred towards her skewer your perception of her face. Be objective. CAN you name even one?

Even Lady Gaga, with makeup, certainly isn’t a plain Jane, and it’s with makeup that counts, since nobody ever performs or attends functions or photoshoots without makeup.

•    Are we to believe that all the good looks in the recording industry are just a coincidence?

•    Are we to believe that only women with pretty faces can sing, dance and play a flute?

•    Are we to believe that homely women can’t sing?

Recording studio executives know that ugly doesn’t sell; only beauty does – even if it’s on a 230 pound body.

It’s no coincidence that Adele has a very pretty face. You know stinkin’ well that Adele would not have had a snowball’s chance in hell if she’d had a face like Rosie O’Donnell.

It’s amazing that women will cry for body positivity but at the same time would never pay to see a “fugly” woman perform on stage.

Body Positivity Calendars and More

Show me ONE plus size woman on a body positivity calendar whose face isn’t pretty.

The body positivity movement still has a very long way to go.

This includes the photographers who pat themselves on the back and boast inclusivity when photographing women with skin disorders – yet most of their subjects have Golden Ratio proportions!

Source: Target
Lorra Garrick has been covering medical, fitness and cybersecurity topics for many years, having written thousands of articles for print magazines and websites, including as a ghostwriter. She’s also a former ACE-certified personal trainer.  

How Much Should You Worry About Melanoma in Your Child?

Do you worry that your anxiety over your child developing melanoma might be unrealistic, but you just can’t help obsessively inspecting their moles and imagining the worst?

Yes, melanoma occurs in children, even those with olive skin. In fact, no dermatologist will ever say that a child with dark skin is immune to this deadly skin cancer.

But let’s put things into perspective to ease your ongoing anxiety or obsession about melanoma affecting your child or teen.

“According to the American Academy of Dermatology Diagnosis, the number of cases diagnosed in child patients is between 300 and 400 each year,” says Dr. Gretchen Frieling, MD, Triple Board Certified Boston Area Dermatopathologist.

“This makes it rare in children and can look different on them than it does on adults,” continues Dr. Frieling.

“However, the ABCDEs can still help parents identify suspicious lesions. In any patient, child or adult, early diagnosis can alleviate some of the burdens of the condition and/or the treatment.”

One of the biggest differences between many cases of childhood melanoma and that affecting adults is that in the young population, the tumor is often one color.

We are taught that a mole of changing colors over time, or a mole that we’ve never noticed before (e.g., first-time skin self-exam) that has multiple colors, needs to be examined by a dermatologist.

This can create the idea that a mole of one uniform color is benign. But kids can have a melanoma that seems to be a harmless mole of one color.

This is why it’s important to be aware of other changes that can get a dermatologist’s attention, such as fast changes in the spot’s size and shape, and even new elevation, in that previously it was flat.

Another sign that a dermatologist would be interested in is if there’s one mole that looks different from all of your child’s other moles.

• It’s much darker than the rest.
• Or, all her moles are very dark, but one is very light brown.
• All are round, but one has jagged edges or is very large.

At the same time, parents need to know that it’s perfectly normal for benign moles to begin appearing throughout childhood.

Normal moles on a child’s back. Shutterstock/Albina Glisic

While you should be familiar with your child’s moles, there is no reason to let anxiety get the best of you.

Remember, 300 to 400 new diagnoses each year in the U.S. means that this disease isn’t just rare in kids – it’s outright exceedingly rare.

Nevertheless, it’s a smart idea to simply view the moles from time to time – discreetly, so as not to transfer any anxiety or self-consciousness onto your child.

At the same time, do not become obsessive over an illness that strikes only 300-400 kids a year!

Signs of Obsessing Over Your Child’s Moles

• You created a mole map for every mole, either by placing dots on a pre-illustrated child’s body, or drawing sections of your child’s body yourself and placing the dots there.

• You take pictures of your child’s moles and study them.

• You compare the pictures to previous pictures.

• You use an app for mole checking on your child.

• You inspect his moles, from top to bottom, every month without fail, and inspections aren’t quick.

• You frequently ask her questions such as, “Have you noticed that mole before?” “Has that mole always looked like that?” “Does that mole seem darker lately?”

Dermatologists urge parents to be vigilant about their children’s skin health. But at the same time, it’s crucial to keep things in perspective and be realistic rather than a worry wort.

“This can cause them stress and anxiety if they are a parent and hovering over a child’s every mole or spot,” says Dr. Frieling.

“This can distress the child and even transmit some anxiety and fear to the child.”

How to Ease Fear of Melanoma Developing in Your Child:
Facts to Know, Practices to Do

• New moles, again, normally develop throughout childhood and the teen years.

• Because new moles are always developing, it’ll be normal to notice some getting bigger very gradually over time.

• Location of a newly developing mole is not indicative of an increased likelihood of melanoma.

• Moles can be flesh colored, tan, any shade of brown and even almost black.

• Take your child in for an annual skin check by a pediatric dermatologist. This annual exam will go a long way at easing your anxiety.

• Make application of sunblock a non-negotiable routine prior to time spent outdoors.

• It’s perfectly okay to put sunblock on a baby. No baby should ever get a tan, let alone sunburn.

Stop worrying and obsessing. Instead, focus on things that are more likely to harm your child such as not wearing a seatbelt and not being trained in stranger safety!

Child’s Melanoma vs. Adult’s: Appearance Comparison

Dr. Frieling’s website is gfacemd.com. In addition to 15+ years of experience in dermatology and dermapathology, Dr. Frieling provides advanced micro-enhancement techniques to optimize the health and beauty of her patients’ skin. 
Lorra Garrick has been covering medical, fitness and cybersecurity topics for many years, having written thousands of articles for print magazines and websites, including as a ghostwriter. She’s also a former ACE-certified personal trainer.  

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Can a Basal Cell Carcinoma Be Purple?

Basal cell carcinoma is typically described as a nodule or bump that may be pearly in color, but also flesh toned or some range of pink.

Purple is a color that may come to mind for some people concerned over discovering a stubborn nodule or small bump on their skin that just won’t go away.

Though basal cell carcinoma is the least evil of all the different kinds of cancer that can affect the skin… hearing, “You have basal cell cancer,” can still leave a person sleepless the following night.

If neglected (ignored, not treated), this malignancy can cause serious local destruction of nearby tissue.

The Color Purple

“Basal cell carcinoma can present as a flesh-colored or brown spot on the skin,” says Dr. Gretchen Frieling, MD, Triple Board Certified Boston Area Dermatopathologist.

“It can also present itself as a bleeding or scabbing lesion that heals and returns,” continues Dr. Frieling.

“In those instances, the scabbing can make it look a bit purple, but basal cell carcinoma is usually identified by its pearly, light color or a brown spot.

A basal cell carcinoma lesion displaying a scabby, brownish-dull purple appearance.

“Kaposi sarcoma, however, is a more rare form of cancer that occurs in the skin’s blood vessels and can cause purple or red patches of skin.”

If you’re diagnosed with a basal cell carcinoma, do not panic. This type of tumor very rarely metastasizes, even when local destruction has already occurred.

It also cannot turn into melanoma, the most serious form of skin cancer.

But if you suspect that the stubborn pimple-like lesion on your forehead, nose, cheek, near the eye, ear, scalp or any sun-exposed body might be a BCC, do not put off getting it examined just because you just read that a BCC very rarely spreads to other parts of the body.

Promptly get it examined — because melanoma can mimic the appearance of a basal cell carcinoma to the untrained eye.

Any spot, nodule, bump, blemish or patch on the skin that doesn’t go away after two or three weeks should be examined by a dermatologist, regardless of color – be it flesh, pink, purple, brown, tan or whatever.

Dr. Frieling’s website is gfacemd.com. In addition to 15+ years of experience in dermatology and dermapathology, Dr. Frieling provides advanced micro-enhancement techniques to optimize the health and beauty of her patients’ skin. 
Lorra Garrick has been covering medical, fitness and cybersecurity topics for many years, having written thousands of articles for print magazines and websites, including as a ghostwriter. She’s also a former ACE-certified personal trainer.  
 
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